Before marriage, my husband and I were always all over each other. Day in and day out we never wanted to be apart. More than the physical attraction between us, it was, perhaps, what you might call true intimacy: Our hearts were—still are—into our relationship and it’s been great.
Yet lo and behold: perfection never exists. Somewhere down the road, a different need sprung between us. After being together for over 20 years, that way-overdue “itch” finally hit us. What’s wonderful about it is that neither of us feels threatened by it. In fact, we were more than willing to admit it to ourselves and together work something out to help the situation. Three guesses what we agreed to do…
Yes! And we’re even very excited about it, like we’re 15 years younger and back in some sort of a dating scene. I believe it’s what people call “open relationship”nowadays. I’m so willing to meet other men whom I can share mutually fun times with… which can of course lead to more intimate moments. It’s a late phase in my life but it’s a new experience and definitely want to enjoy it. So does my eager husband—let’s just say he’s finally gonna let the playboy within goof around with other women and he’s more than willing to savor this experiment. After all, it is every married man’s fantasy to have discreet affairs with a young woman curious about older guys or another housewife also wanting to try new things for herself.
I’m so glad we’re flinging. It’s a very welcome thing for us to meet new people for fun and mutual companionship. We love each other and we’ll always be together in marriage, but it’s also healthy to allow others help us attend to our personal needs. For sure, this experiment will strengthen our bond more as husband and wife.